See a woman emotionally eating? She's wearing her grief and her loneliness.
See a woman chasing a man? She's wearing her little child's hopes that if she works hard enough love will finally return and choose her.
See a woman that has let herself go? She's wearing a lot of pain she tried hard and rightfully to forget by forgetting herself.
See a woman that can't get "it" together? She's wearing her trauma on her. If she gets "it" together she might "get it" again (the trauma.)
See a woman lacking will power? She's wearing her hopelessness at life and demoralized more than you could know. Her will lacks her heart's why.
It's not the emotional eating, it's not the chasing a man, it's not the letting herself go- it's not about that.
Sure invite her to remember herself and do better by her own self, but these are just symptoms of grief, of trauma, of abandonment......
Go to the root.
If grief isn't felt and safety to feel provided, grief will be worn and unsafety lived in.
You are always loved,
Gio