Why Chasing A Man Will Not Get You Cherished As A Woman ==================================================
We chase a man when we are looking for control.
We still don't quite know how to attract the love we want and so we have to find ways to force it, control it, make it happen, and force a man to like us, commit to us and be with us.
We stalk him on social media. Text him just to say hi. We try to be sweet, nice and do things for him. We try hard to impress him, convince him, and win him over.
All of those are the exact opposite of feminine energy whose foundation is emotional freedom. You aren't free, therefore he pushes away from control. And we control because we are disconnected from our Feminine power and because inside, we allow fear and desperation to be the only means we USE to get love.
It's unattractive and no woman in her masculine energy is going to attract the sort of masculine man she wants. That's when men pull away, ghost us, make convenient excuses like saying "he really wants to see you but he just had a family emergency or he has been super busy lately." Or maybe he does see you for coffee, or invites you to hang, or may even still take you to dinner one last time... But it's clear he's no longer excited or making an effort, and you somehow feel you've been put in the booty call or friend zone.
Masculine men are not attracted to Masculine energy in women. Men don't like to be controlled, chased, pursued... Feminine energy--the real feminine energy, not the outer layer of performing to gain love, ---triggers intense attraction in men.
You are always loved, Gio