It is about being aware of the quality of the love we truly offer, truly being open to seeing how it is we show up with men, day to day… and if we give real high quality love, vs low quality, love.
Low quality love tends to use men, instead of truly love them. When we hide behind our fears and baggage, when we leave stuff unresolved, when we communicate aggressively or play games—we are playing at love, we are playing at relationships—and not truly engaging from vulnerability, intimacy and love. Love is humble, love is self-loving, love SEES the other human being… sees the soul. Love sees our own soul as well—sees when a man is just not capable of giving us what we desire, and respects that and moves on.
Soulmates see each other's souls.
Remember that the goal isn't a "relationship", the goal is 2 souls really knowing each other and choosing each other and creating a life that is much better together, than alone.
You are always loved,