No Man ever Chooses me
Why do other women get men to commit and I don't
While you may be experiencing this (and in the institute, we will take you through single --> Irresistible)...these thoughts carry enormous energy.
Feel into how you react and respond when you are thinking them?
Now one of the big things that feed into these thoughts is being in what I call a state of self-abandonment or soul starvation.
A typical sign you are in soul starvation is when you've had a conversation with a man, it was really connected and all of a sudden you are on a major HIGH- and in this high you are thinking only about him, when to see him again and your mind is racing to be again in his energy- and more importantly- to "getting" him.
You can't understand why he takes a week to ask you on a date- Why is he waiting THAT long???
Doesn't he want ME as much as I want him?
And that right there is the sign. You are in starvation mode. And starvation mode only comes when we are living a self-abandoned life.
Either we don't have several options to choose from with men because we don't know how to build our man-funnel (how to have connections and meet several quality men and know there always many options for us)
We isolate and live a life in which we don't feel alive, full, passionate- so we are looking for all of that in one man- we are starving for it, so we have one "meal" one date and we get hooked. We get addicted- and a guy feels it and runs......
You have to learn how to live an abundant life- that is what will balance you, that coupled with deep inner work. Desperation is hunger,, soul hunger- and a sign we are disconnected from ourselves, we have abandoned ourselves and our needs and we don't know HOW to meet them.
So catch yourself- do you initially connect with a man-
And get hooked on him very fast
Do you try really hard to have intensity with him- (go really deep, really fast to "break the ice")
If so these are signs there is a deeper problem- self-abandonment- and no relationship can thrive because if you are starving, you are always feeding your energy isn't of bringing energy to the table equally.
You are always loved,