Pursue you? Don't think about him.
--> If he doesn't call? Put the phone away and go have a fantastic day, watch a movie or go to sleep. Don't let him become the center of your world, your world is too beautiful for that.
--> If he doesn't care about how you feel? Let another man in who does.
-->If he plays games? Walk away.
-->If he thinks he is entitled to your body, presence and time without giving as much or more in return? Let him feel whatever he wants to feel, go make yourself feel good and be clear about what you want to give or not give, with whom and where. When he offers you a high investment plan, then respond.
-->If he acts distant? Go fill your day with things you love and forget about the situation. Let it resolve itself. Lean back.
-->If he shuts you down emotionally when you have healthy needs consistently? Get a massage, journal on your fears of abandonment, put on a pretty dress and go be the magnet you are to higher quality men who stay and fight for you.
-->If he blows hot and cold? Let go, set him free and let another man blow hot for you.
-->Do I have to say what to do if he is disrespectful or demeaning? I think you know what I'd say.
You at all times choose what you respond to, what you reject. What you get involved with, what you walk away from. What invisible contract you are signing and what standards you are allowing. You're number one job is to allow only what is good, truly good into your life, and walk away from what isn't.
You are always loved,