How I Manifested My Top 10, High Value Man!
My name is Molly and today I am taking over Gio's blog with all the love in the world. It is on my heart to share with every woman my amazing story of finding true love with a man I am so proud to be with, who shows me every day how much he adores me, cherishes me and loves me.
My testimonial is all about going on the journey of becoming a High Value Woman that can attract a dream man with ease (see a photo of us below!)
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” -Rumi
Through Giordana Toccaceli's teachings, I became aware of this whole feminine and masculine energy thing which if you ask me is the key to relationships.
To my surprise, I then proceeded to discover that I was really showing up in masculine energy with men. Looking back now, I know why it was a struggle to develop my feminine energy. I was trying to survive in a masculine world, using my armor to get results in my career, thinking I needed to focus my energy on being efficient, direct, and action-oriented.
So there I went, earning, achieving, and getting significance from providing for myself after all the world can be tough and uncertain. I was always prepared to win battles in and out of the boardroom.
My relationships with men, however, were disconnected, lacking passion and devotion. I kept attracting low quality men, nothing to really be excited about. Can you relate?
Things just weren't working out for me, I kept hitting walls, having my heart broken and overall not attracting that high caliber of man I secretly dreamt of and longed for. I had already been married once and found myself divorced and raising a son by myself, feeling like a failure.
Gio's Teachings on Beingness, Feminine Energy & High Value Worth
It is amazing how when you are truly open and committed to doing what it takes to heal yourself- the right teacher and tools show up in your life. Gio's focus on a woman's internal world and worth as opposed to a ton of inauthentic feeling rules to follow spoke deeply to me. I was determined to get my worthiness back. I became so aware of how heavy the armor I wore felt, even though I wore it to project strength and independence. It became too heavy and exhausting to put on every day.
I just wanted to be the feminine energy, I wanted to be protected, I wanted to draw in a strong man, without being guarded. I wanted to be vulnerable, I just didn't know how to do it in a way where I believed would possibly scare someone off.
This false way of being wasn’t sustainable and it was no longer working for me. So I began learning about BEINGness and the power of Feminine energy!
I finally began to understand what softness is, the softness that men repeatedly say they look for in the woman they commit to with their whole heart and soul. With the healing inner work, I began to soften my edges and practiced living more authentically and vulnerably. I learned to give love to the harsh, judgmental critic inside me and made space for more love, acceptance, and forgiveness (ladies the inner work at the Embodied Feminine Institute is like nothing else, sign up for the waiting list here for next enrollment.)
I knew I had to show up differently with men than I had ever done before. When I committed to the inner work, I attracted much higher quality men in my funnel. I found confidence being around all kinds of men and was at ease enjoying conversations and receiving from them.
Then He Came Along :) ...
The moment I met him I was blown away, nervous and so attracted to him! He was like no other man I had met. So high quality and high caliber! Handsome, masculine, strong, well dressed and a perfect gentleman who led, took charge and planned out the most amazing and romantic dates. He consistently showed up week after week. And Gio's teachings on a man opening up his Soul to you couldn't be truer!