Author -- Giordana Toccaceli
This one is short but sweet-
Do men feel intimidated by smart women? (I.e. should you dumb yourself down for a man?)
I've heard this going around, with some people even advising women to dumb themselves down. It's crazy the extremes you can see in terms of advice. Ladies extremes are a sign compensation is needed when someone is disconnected from their substance, their soul and their enough-ness.
A quality man will LOVE a woman's intelligence- and find a real soulmate and think-mate in her-
What they aren't attracted to is a woman who is in her head talking to them emotionless and disconnected from her heart (her SOUL- he can't fall in love with you as a SOULmate if you aren't showing him your SOUL.). And they aren't attracted to a woman in masculine energy with them (its fine if she uses masculine energy in her life).
Men who are more masculine feel repelled by women who compete with them in their masculine energy just as more feminine women feel repelled by a man who competes with her feminine energy. (The amount of women who tell me how much of a turn of a man who competes with her femininity is is just as large or numerous as the opposite.)
Keep your masculine energy for the boardroom and for taking good care of yourself, drop into your feminine being-ness and watch a man feel drawn to you, even more through your brilliance.
A real relationship is where you feel your freest and most authentic, gifts, brilliance, intelligence and all, while upholding healthy energetic boundaries.
You are always loved,