Has your man become distant, disinterested and withdrawn?
We call this Man Checkout Syndrome - when a man seems to pull away inexplicably from a relationship and a woman is left feeling fearful, anxious and abandoned.
It looks like this.....
He seems to have time and energy for his work but not for you. When he comes home he has concerns and attention for the kids, for things around the house or he zones out in front of the TV, but he doesn't search you out anymore.
He doesn't initiate romantic plans, dinner dates, flowers or sex much anymore. He doesn't respond to texts quickly or at all. He doesn't call you "beautiful" or tell you how much "he loves you" or "how special you are" to him.
You feel like his sweetness and eyes lit up for you are gone.
The romance and passion in the relationship feel like it has faded.
Even if you try to talk about it or find solutions, try to start planning the dates for him, buy sexy lingerie or initiate "hot" sex, it just seems to withdraw him even more.
If you can relate to this you know how scary this can feel and everything it can bring up. Unfortunately when this happens women go into overdrive to try and "fix it."
They go on diets and try to lose weight, they nag, constantly remind him of what he is doing wrong or how he is failing the relationship; they cry, scream and yell, they threaten to leave, or use the kids as leverage- they want to "talk" and "talk" about it - however this is all masculine energy which will repel him even further, and all of this just reconfirms to a man why he checked out in the first place. Then come the fears there is another woman or the deep-seated "I'm not enough" triggers when all that is happening is that the polarity (feminine energy and his masculine energy) and intimacy (deep emotional attraction a woman can ignite in a man) is out of place. And no, you don't have to ever give up feeling like you can't have the passion, romance, desire and deeply connected love you long for.
YOU HAVE MORE POWER THAN YOU THINK TO IGNITE HIS LOVE FOR YOU AS A FEMININE, HIGH VALUE WOMAN.
High Value, Feminine Energy
As soon as you step into magnetic Feminine energy it begins to shift everything in your relationship. You have to learn the feminine way of being and connecting with a man's heart and soul, what he is actually longing for MOST from you right now, to begin to draw him to you, ignite his masculine chivalrous desire to be your Hero, protector, and lover.
We see women do it all of the time. When women understand what makes a man's soul tick, how differently they experience love and what triggers them deep inside to want to open their heart, let you in and do anything they can to make you happy, it is game over in a relationship.
You can ignite your man's deep primal attraction for you, his desire to emotionally pursue you and make your happiness his priority again.
As one of our Master Teacher's at our Embodied Feminine Woman Institute says about her husband, "No matter where we go he is always making me the priority, making sure I am taken care of like a Queen."
What if you could turn this around, and quickly? Where your man becomes present to you again in body and soul? Where he is coming towards you again and the wooing and romance are back on instead of away from you? What if you could feel his intense attraction for you while you feel the safest and most secure you have ever in your relationship?
We would love to not only take you by the hand and help you, but also help you do it quickly. We find women often wait too long to get the key support they need- you and your relationship are worth it and we can help you.
Book your Free Love & Relationship Clarity Call (valued at $297) and talk to one of our experts, they are loving, and they have amazing love lives & marriages. They have used what we teach to ignite and strengthen the love and passion in their relationships and their men would do anything for them. This can be you as too!
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We see women all of the time who come to us feeling like their man is distant only to reignite his love, passion, and devotion. Check out Ximena's story below!
"Can you just let me be the man?"
My romantic partners would often say this to me.
You see, as a career woman: author, health consultant, international lecturer, fitness TV personality and entrepreneur my energy can sometimes come across as masculine. For example, I enjoy leading, accomplishing, I spend a lot of time in my head and I'm more competitive than I'd like to admit. The awareness that I have developed through Gio's wisdom has allowed me to connect some powerful dots and understand that I was coming to men as the leader and the initiator. In other words, I was relating to men through my masculine energy making it difficult for me to "sit back". It wasn't until I began studying Gio's work that I began realizing that I was becoming very disconnected from my feminine energy and my needs as a woman and this was impacting my marriage. Like many women today, I had bought into the mainstream idea that modern women don't need a man. Talk about sending mixed messages.
I guess there was a part of me that wanted to be protected, but because it conflicted with my idea of what a "modern woman" was, I shamed and dismissed it. Understanding this helped me develop a healthier relationship not only with my husband but also with my career. My husband has responded by massively stepping up as my protector, wanting to be my provider, taking amazing care of me, listening to me, wanting to do anything he can to make our relationship great!
The more feminine I am, the more he wants to protect me.
Allowing myself to receive his masculine energy has relaxed me and made me feel safe.
Gio's work has also reminded me the importance of dropping from my head into my heart and to be playful, affectionate, receptive and sensual with my husband. Giordana Toccaceli's teachings are life transformative and incredible for any woman who wants to heal her heart, learn to balance her feminine and masculine energy and transform her love life, marriage and relationships with men!