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“Hi ladies! (I got engaged this year to the love of my life.) This Christmas for me at home with my family and traditions, with him, was magical. It felt so amazing to have him there with me. I woke up on Christmas Day to him staring at me with a smile on his face. That was my favorite part of the holiday. He was everything for me at my home; he was absolutely amazing. This was the first time I've taken a man home for Christmas my betrothed (engaged). This was kind of a huge deal to me.

My time home with my man was magical. He was magical. He was steady and calm and loving. He brought me coffee in bed, cooked for my family. My family made fun of us for staring at each other lovingly "too much." (Okay...after what feels like 16 years of being un-committed to a man, I don't think any loving moments between us are too much). I want to give you all hope that what you seek is out there. Truly. I felt like having my love at home with me was ... all my dreams coming true, and some parts are just too precious and fulfilling to put how it feels into words.

I read my personal journal entry from January 2018 (before EFW.) I had written my goals for the year, one of them was that (a new relationship) and that a great love of my life would propose in a surprising and magical way. Every single goal I wrote about in detail this way came true for me in 2018. I'll do the same practice for my 2019, I'm so thankful to be entering 2019 with all of you here at EFW!  ❤” (her photos below!)

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EMBODIED FEMININE WOMAN REVIEWS GIORDANA TOCCACELI REVIEWS

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***2. Boundaries.*** 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I did not understand what 'leaning back' was properly or 'boundaries' at first. I thought, Why would I set boundaries if I'm leaning back, that makes no sense. Isn't leaning back about 'being cool' and giving space? What do boundaries have to do with space? 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍Also, because I 'don't have the right to exist at all,' I should be happy even receiving someone's crumbs, what right do I have to set boundaries? Then I could lose even the crumbs, what a terrifying idea. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍This led to me not setting boundaries for well over a year with my man, as he grew increasingly more narcissistic in some ways, boy-like, not only taking less leadership on but going back on his word in other areas too. It was a nightmare. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I even broke up with him for 8 weeks during EFWI. Well you better believe I set boundaries then and there, like a Goddess (not like a jerk - which was my past life way of doing it, if I did it at all - it came out in a fiery explosion of over-due boundary setting). 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍He stepped up like NO tomorrow after that. He bought us a house, he changed locations. He took up leadership. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍But mistakenly? I went back to my old ways, thinking I have to 'lean back' so much and be cool. Guess what.... He starts showing low value behaviors again - not taking care of the house, complaining about his health, his job, his life, his mom. Making his problems my problems. Expecting me to lead and take care of things. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍Well, almost a month ago I laid down my boundaries again. Very Firmly. And I get now what it means to do this in a feminine way, I tell him how his actions make me FEEL, I don't demand he change, I tell him that I'll have to step away as my needs aren't being met. There are no threats, no ultimatums, no low value tactics. Just a conversation of These are my needs and my boundaries, this is what I accept and reject. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I think boundaries turn him on. Because he has stepped up yet AGAIN on new things this time. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍There's some growth necessary with him because when we met, he still lived at home. He's had to learn and grow through moving out to a condo, and now to a house, and he hasn't inherently *known* how to do these life tasks the way I do (having lived on my own from a young age). But each time we uplevel, and he doesn't step up, it seems me having the boundary discussion has him catch up to our new level - and then surpass me in the leadership department. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍He is now taking supplements, has more energy, signed up to a boxing studio, started fixing issues with his mom, is not complaining about it to me anymore, is enjoying his work and appreciating it (rather than complaining), is taking initiative on reno projects and chores and more. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍He WANTS to be a Masculine leader, and I can tell, his Dad died and he didn't have a role model in this department, his mom emasculated him. But I see him growing because of me becoming more feminine. 

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***3. Third thing I got from EWFI - 

A Sense of PEACE and Safety with a man.***

These two times I really set boundaries, the man my man became - I have never in my life felt this way about a man. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I used to think people got married 'just because' it was the next step. When he proposed to me 1.5 years ago I said yes but was still terrified (hence why I joined EFWI). 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍I never felt like I'd ever find a man that I'd truly feel happy to marry or fulfilled with. I loved him and had multiple levels of attraction to him but I didn't get why people got married. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I'd see my girlfriends getting married, swooning over their men and I just didn't get it.

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍Seeing my man step up has elicited such a sense of calm and peacefulness in me. I have no doubts now that he adores me and is attracted to me - he shows me now through actions, affection, touch, his words. I have no doubts he would step up and do things for our family. And I think that's what was in my way - doubt. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I wasn't being feminine, I was using low value tactics, and none of it brought out the Hero in my man. It just pushed us further into me being masculine and him being lazy as hell. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍Now I have that and I *COMPLETELY* get it. I completely get why a woman would marry a man. When he is this way, I don't have eyes for anyone else. I am completely fulfilled. Marrying him becomes a no brainer. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍This is what I created out of the Embodied Feminine Woman Institute. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ I routinely refer my patients to it. I get nothing out of this other than seeing you succeed. I think we are reclaiming our femininity as a society, and allowing our men to reclaim their masculinity, and this is so important. I want my daughter to have that to model after. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍I write this because maybe you too stand to get a lot out of it, not just a dream relationship with a man, but also with yourself. 

‍‍‍‍‍‍ ‍‍PS - I feel no shame or guilt about myself anymore. I actually weigh my heaviest right now (which is not that much but still) yet have more self love, radiance and confidence than ever. Learning that your Power all comes from INSIDE of you, and none of it from the external - is the best thing ever. None of your Worth is reliant on things outside of you and I can't believe how powerful, radiant and beautiful that makes me feel. 

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*Growth moment* My heart is so overwhelmed with gratitude to the point I’ve been sobbing happy tears the last half hour. It feels so good to see my own growth in multiple ways. I’m so proud of myself and happy for the possibilities in front of me. While I was home for Christmas my family actually had a blow up with my mom. The whole time, I was able to stay centered in my heart and express my boundaries while also expressing empathy. I didn’t get caught up in the keeping score of who did what when. I just went straight to the root of what was happening in my heart and my mom’s heart and let her have her time to process her own stuff. I kept it short, sweet, and honest and just let it be. The response I got back from my mom was waaaay different from the building heated back and forth everyone else got from her. And I felt good about myself the entire time knowing that I was giving myself exactly what I needed. I also had another super cool moment of realizing how some childhood stories of being the invisible, never chosen twin have played out in other spaces that kept me from feeling like I was loved and liked. And really I was very much loved and liked and always have been. I just couldn’t see/feel/receive it before.  And as for dating, I’ve noticed how I would have jumped on the opportunity to be exclusive with someone I liked before now. Now, I take my time. Even though I very much wanted to say yes to the last three asks to be exclusive by the newest man I’ve been posting about. And I’m not playing hard to get with him either. I just want to be sure this is a good decision for me before I shut down all the wonderful options coming my way on all my other profiles. And he’s been sooo wonderful and dreamy and attentive this whole time. Very much energy coming toward me in the yummiest ways. I can’t even tell you all the sweet things he says and does on the daily. He loves to tell me to “ask my heart” about stuff, and it makes me laugh so hard. (He listened to a few minutes of Gio introducing a topic with me, and that’s what he got out of it.) And he’s so serious when he says it to me. It’s adorable. I don’t know where this will go with him specifically, but I feel so good about my ability to call in high value men. I’m very much enjoying how organic this feels with him claiming more and more of my time while I get to just decide if this is a good fit for me instead of trying so hard to make something happen or move forward.

*Growth moment*
My heart is so overwhelmed with gratitude to the point I’ve been sobbing happy tears the last half hour. It feels so good to see my own growth in multiple ways. I’m so proud of myself and happy for the possibilities in front of me. While I was home for Christmas my family actually had a blow up with my mom. The whole time, I was able to stay centered in my heart and express my boundaries while also expressing empathy. I didn’t get caught up in the keeping score of who did what when. I just went straight to the root of what was happening in my heart and my mom’s heart and let her have her time to process her own stuff. I kept it short, sweet, and honest and just let it be. The response I got back from my mom was waaaay different from the building heated back and forth everyone else got from her. And I felt good about myself the entire time knowing that I was giving myself exactly what I needed. I also had another super cool moment of realizing how some childhood stories of being the invisible, never chosen twin have played out in other spaces that kept me from feeling like I was loved and liked. And really I was very much loved and liked and always have been. I just couldn’t see/feel/receive it before.

And as for dating, I’ve noticed how I would have jumped on the opportunity to be exclusive with someone I liked before now. Now, I take my time. Even though I very much wanted to say yes to the last three asks to be exclusive by the newest man I’ve been posting about. And I’m not playing hard to get with him either. I just want to be sure this is a good decision for me before I shut down all the wonderful options coming my way on all my other profiles. And he’s been sooo wonderful and dreamy and attentive this whole time. Very much energy coming toward me in the yummiest ways. I can’t even tell you all the sweet things he says and does on the daily. He loves to tell me to “ask my heart” about stuff, and it makes me laugh so hard. (He listened to a few minutes of Gio introducing a topic with me, and that’s what he got out of it.) And he’s so serious when he says it to me. It’s adorable. I don’t know where this will go with him specifically, but I feel so good about my ability to call in high value men. I’m very much enjoying how organic this feels with him claiming more and more of my time while I get to just decide if this is a good fit for me instead of trying so hard to make something happen or move forward.

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OUR EMBODIED FEMININE WOMAN INSTITUTE IS KNOWN FOR ITS RESULTS AND FOR ITS AMAZING COMMUNITY WHERE YOU CAN....


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Ladies, guess what?! I'm engaged to a very high-value man! He is everything Gio teaches us here about attracting and keeping. I'm a very lucky girl 😊 He's everything I've ever wanted and more than I could ever dream of having. ❤️ I just wanted to share with everyone here. Great things are possible, and the right one will not leave you hanging and wondering where you stand with each other. We have a very open communication line, and while we might not appreciate and like everything that's said at times right away, we always work it out and make things better than before.

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Another day, another EFW (Embodied Feminine Woman Institute) beauty goes from Single to Dream Engagement!

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Woohoo! EFW 2019 Year of Love!

"So this just happened... ♥️♥️♥️💍💍
Update to tell the story...
I joined EFW last November as my then relationship was not what I needed. I immersed myself here at EFW and in codependency healing along with aligning with a better life. I had a new job I still absolutely love and was in a path of self love I felt I was sacrificing with the man I was with. When we split, I was angry at him and me as I totally chose to not listen to red flags. Consciously made choices against myself. It took me all of two days to pick myself up and I made a promise to take care of me.
I met E on bumble and remembered thinking at our first date how relaxed I was! He commented on how feminine I am and how open and I also followed guidelines for texting, letting him plan, having fun and being in the moment and things literally just fell into place for us. He is a hopeless romantic so I’ve gotten flowers every week, couples massages, homemade meals, and a trip to Napa for my birthday. I would pinch myself to make sure I wasn’t dreaming.
Last night he came over and presented me with a memory box he had kept. Adorable memories from dates and inside jokes we have. Even ticket stubs for our first movie together and room key from our trip. At the bottom was a velvet bag and as I grabbed it he went on one knee and asked me if I would do him the honor of being his wife and making him the happiest man in the world. I was crying of course and screaming and of course I said yes! We called our mom’s who both cried happy tears and said they knew it! His dad said ‘it’s about damn time’. I couldn’t wait to tell this group as it has been an incredible source of strength and motivation and love.
Thank you all so much! I’m not done here yet and I will be practicing these tools forever with my love ♥️♥️"

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"Hello, ladies! Sisters!! He cooked me dinner and I surprised him with a couple framed copies of my photo shoot images. Saturday, he took me on a heartwarming series of Art-related activities, including painting my pups! He discussed marriage again this weekend (he started it) and he shared that he has already started shopping for rings but wants to wait and involve my daughter in the selection. 😍😭. I literally cried tears of joy. This is the healthiest, most adult, giving, balanced, abundant relationship I’ve ever experienced & I would never have been ready without the inner work at EFW. I am able to express my needs, desires, and dreams. I am able to experience astounding intimacy (the sex is off the charts, too). I consistently check in here any time I need support and reminders of operating in my feminine energy. I mean ... I don’t just want to get into a relationship, I want it to stay this amazing forever!! I have reflected on how these conversations would have gone in my past and am so pleased with my ability to drop into my heart, be truly vulnerable, ask for what I need, receive from him, respect him, play with him, and embody femininity in my relationship with him. I’m not ‘trying’ to be feminine... it’s just happening (after listening to modules over and over). I am grateful for the tools and support of this sisterhood, the mentors and Gio! This program is the real deal, ladies! The relationship I dreamed of when I made that initial investment in myself is now my reality. It’s new, we will face challenges, but now I know we will be facing them together. I will make sure and share engagement photos with the team along the way! Much love & gratitude!!"

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"❤️ Guess what ladies? I met the man of my dreams! Just wanted to share a little bit about us. We have been enjoying each other and building great moments together. He makes me feel so safe, loved, and cared for. He’s so amazing I could write a book about his awesomeness.
In the pics, the one in red is our first pic together and the one in the chair is our first travel trip together (sand was blowing in our faces during this pic).
I feel really grateful to have met this wonderful man. It feels like we are made for each other and fit together really well. He’s truly way beyond anything I could have ever asked for in a man. Integrity, character, loving, kindness, patience, loves family, protective, very masculine, sensitive, hilarious, communicates well, gentleman, financially secure, handsome, successful are some things that make him really attractive.

Being so in awe of him, some days I catch myself staring at him with saucer wide eyes, like did you fall from heaven?
Some of the most memorable things he’s said to me is that he waited until the 4th date to kiss me because he saw me as a woman of value. He says I’m so strong yet gentle and sweet at the same time. Some of you might remember, he’s the mystery man who sent me flowers on my birthday! Yeah same guy! Now he’s giving me those forever gold roses. I remember feeling good about him from the beginning.

>>>> I wouldn’t trade him for anyone else. It’s just been a really beautiful journey together and I’m basking in all this love and loving every moment. 🥰 <<<<<


Definitely all the EFW healing, learning, transformation, embodiment, coaching has come together…I’ve changed and grown a lot this past year! It’s so much easier and natural to be in flow with my heart! What I really gained the most from EFW besides romantic love is deep self-love in my core. That is priceless and affects every area of my life! I’m so incredibly grateful for Gio, our mentors and all the wonderful sisters in EFW. Sending so much love and good wishes to everyone here on the path to love. Cheers to all of us! 💖🥂"

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"Hey Lovelies ❤️
This is my last week in EFW and I felt like sharing my journey with you.
When I joined EFW, I had never experienced real love. I was married to a man who was more like a best friend to me, we had no passion - at least not on my side. Before (and after) my ex I have always felt very drawn to unavailable men. I was the fixer. The masculine doer. The people pleaser and a doormat. After my divorce, I knew I needed to learn how to love myself. I just had no idea where to start and how to actually DO that. Being raised by alcoholic parents I was used to bypass my own needs and feelings, I was always there to help others. Being forced to act like a family therapist and mediator.
I dated men with no sense of self respect. I was used to chasing and accepting crumbs. My father was a broken man, so I continued to heal him in the form of other men.
But then, when I joined EFW the course of my life started to change, slowly but surely I learned new skills how to connect to myself, listen and honor my emotions, create healthy boundaries and respect them - and by doing that I started to understand what it meant and how it felt to love oneself. I became my own best friend and a supporting parent I never had.
I also learned how to understand men, how to spot HV traits and how to communicate with them. I learned how to take them off the pedestal and connect with them on a real level.
Most important lesson for me was to learn about masculine - feminine polarity. I understood how to connect with my authentic feminine, I became softer and I was able to relax - create space. I learned how to receive. At first it felt weird, because I thought I wasn’t worthy of all the masculine gifts, but when I just relaxed, it became easier and easier. Learning how to receive was important part of my self healing.
I finally put myself out there (the way EFW teaches), in an effective way, I went to dates, and I understood how important for me it is to have a man funnel! I am an early attacher for sure, so dating multiple men gave me healthy perspective. I learned also how to make dating fun and light! And it soon felt like just connecting with souls, no chasing or pining.
After 2 months of {doing online dating the way EFW teaches] I found my boyfriend. 😊
Now after 11 months of dating (8 months exclusively), our connection is deepening every day. I have never felt anything like this. This is true love that I feel for him ❤️ We are connecting in so many levels. With him I feel both passion and security (THE thing I was always looking for). He treats me like a Queen. He can’t stop talking about growing old together and how he will make me his wife someday 🥰 I trust his leading (while listening “why men take it slow” once more 😉).
We are both eager to learn more about each other and how to make our relationship even better.
Without knowing how to connect with my heart first, I wouldn’t know how to connect to his. This is an important lesson I have learned.
If you are truly ready to do the inner work, put yourself out there and embody all the EFW teachings, everything is possible! ✨Miracles are there for everyone.✨
My journey will continue. Now together with my dear S 💕
I am going to miss you all so much!

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"I'm over the moon, it's been a whirlwind. I didn't expect the proposal! He asked me if I wanted a snack, I was staring at the beautiful view and turned around to find him on one knee! He is my favorite person in the world! I have the best relationship coach, Gio!"

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"I’m engaged to my beautiful, high-value man! The love of my life! We are shopping for our new home this week! We also just got back from a week in Hawaii that was the most magical experience of my life. The trip was an incredibly victory for me because years ago a man I was with left me on a trip we were on and since then I was always afraid of going on long trips with any man I was dating. I had this deep fear he’d see the real me and leave!
I can’t believe my dreams have come true and I can’t imagine my life without this man! I try to picture my life before him and it feels like another lifetime. I came to this program single and am now getting married to my soulmate! My incredibly strong, masculine man is the kindest, most beautiful soul and is my dream come true!
For so long I believed that we are alone in life and that you could never really trust or rely on a man because if you relied too much he would leave! Talk about abandonment issues which bring me to my next thought.
Ladies I spent years bouncing from relationship program to program, spending thousands of dollars with different coaches with little to no results. They all told me the same things but never got to the CORE of what was really going on inside me! I felt like a failure because I wouldn’t succeed and felt stuck. When I didn’t make progress I got blamed and told I wasn’t trying hard enough. I always felt like there was a big piece that I wasn’t getting that I really needed.
As soon as I joined Gio’s programs I knew this was what I had been looking for. I immediately began to heal through the inner work which is taught in a way I had never seen before. I started to come home to myself, have compassion and real love for myself and really understand why my life had gone the way it had. The program both gave me practical help and a deep spiritual foundation for relationships and for relating to myself. I no longer saw men as difficult and stopped seeing love as hard or elusive. My life began to have a peace and a calm that I had never experienced before. I realized so clearly I’d spent most of my life in pure survival! I also learned how attraction REALLY works with men, how to deeply connect with them and the rest was easy and happened fast! There is nothing cookie-cutter about this approach! It is profound! This is the best relationship and healing program in the world and I am so grateful to you Gio that you decided to follow your path and help us! God bless you!"

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